Y'all have no idea what an encouragement you've been to me.
It gets so very tiring trying to be perfect doesn't it?
I think so often - in the blogging world - there is a tendency to try to give an appearance of a perfect life.
Perfect husband, children, home - lovely meals eaten daily on a perfectly set table.
Good Lord. You have to realize that's not reality, right?
Yesterday I had three hard boiled eggs for breakfast and an orange. I ate it off the cutting board...ha!
And isn't it just a little creepy that I took a photo?
I have it in the back of my mind that I want to do a photo journal of my food to answer the questions of
'what the heck do you eat?'
The reality of my life is this -
where there are chickens, there is poo.
where there are gardens, there are weeds.
where there are bees, there are stings.
where there are teenagers, there are attitudes.
where there are husbands, there are 'moments'.
It's just life.
I haven't the brain capacity, nor the time to be here trying to 'make believe'.
I personally believe that as a blogger, I have an obligation to present life the way it is.
It's bad enough we have to be faced with unrealistic body images while we check out our groceries, why do we need to log on to our favorite blogs only to log off feeling less than, or that we can never measure up to what they are presenting as their reality.
Ok - I'm going off on a tangent.
I came here today to thank you!
I'm sincerely so grateful for your comments, understanding and support.
Yesterday I did get the cards done!
I'd hoped to put them on Etsy this morning - but alas - I'm heading out for a day of fun with a friend, and I have to leave in a half an hour and I'm still in my pj's.
Here's a horrible picture of the cards - to give you an idea.
I thought they turned out super cute.
To thank you for all of your support - I want do do a giveaway of a set of four Mother Wilma note cards and a bottle of serum.
All ya have to do is leave a comment. Make sure I have your email address too - SO many of you are 'noreplyblogger' email addresses and it breaks my heart at times that I can't reply to your comments.
These are the cutest cards EVER! Would love to frame them and hang in the kitchen :)
ReplyDeleteI love them cards, they make me happy. And i love your blog, Jayme, it's the real deal.
ReplyDeleteJayme, I LOVE these Mother Wilma cards! And I love it that you ate your hard boiled eggs off the cutting board...
ReplyDeleteJayme, I've always believed in you, with all your talents you are going far. Cards! Great start! A book next? Start with a children's book with the chickens as the main characters. As I said, don't work for anyone else, you need all your time for your own dreams to come true.
ReplyDeleteI understand that thought process that so many people have on having to have "the perfect life" or the need to "show everyone that everything is ok and beautiful." Your blog, as well as many other blogs, support what I have longed believed...there is only one perfect person. We are not perfect, we all suffer from something in our lives. Thank you for sharing your struggles with us. Each day can be a struggle for so many, but knowing that we are not alone is helpful.
ReplyDeleteNOW...I love the cards and have so wanted to try the serum. :o)
Enjoy your day with your friend and maybe you will have good weather so that you can get out and enjoy the earth in your yard. I know I did last weekend for a short while....then the rains came...and are still here...Oy Vie.
Super cute cards and I've always wanted to try the serum!
ReplyDeleteAdorable! I love your "real" life! :+)
ReplyDeleteuber cute cards! You should do well with them!! Love ya gal!
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy you did something with those fun drawings of yours. Enjoy the day with your friend!
ReplyDeleteReal life is the best. I never feel like I should be hoarding service for 60 when I come 'visit' you. :)
ReplyDeleteYou are so talented! Love the cards! Love your Blog!
ReplyDeleteI totally love the name Mother Wilma! By the way, I read your blog because you are REAL and I love real.
ReplyDeleteThose are adorable!! You are so multitalented :)
ReplyDeleteCute cards . . . let us know when they are up on Etsy . . . I would like to purchase some!
ReplyDeleteI know what I am having for breakfast tomorrow!
Very nice!
ReplyDeletePeggyD0614@gmail.com
Perfection in my world... bah... never going to happen, and how boring would that be anyway!. Would love to win your stuff... XOX Have fun today!!
ReplyDeleteYou give inspiration to enjoy the ordinary, and motivation to tackle the extraordinary. I've pushed myself to do more since you've been writing.
ReplyDeleteand the cards...Just Too Cute!
mardakota@yahoo.com
Thanks for the give away!! I appreciate your honesty here in blog land. You inspire me to happy and satisfied with what I have and the circumstances of my life. Thanks! camipaul @ comcast dot net
ReplyDeleteThe cards are adorable! Side note - I stand at the kitchen counter to eat most days. If I have company I set the table and get all "la de dah" but when it is just me and the cat, I just stand in the kitchen. I am very classy that way!
ReplyDeleteI hope you are enjoying your day out and about!! :) Love the cards. Thank YOU for your honesty and generosity!! :)
ReplyDeleteIs there anything you can't do?!! Love, love, love the cards!! I am known as the crazy chicken lady around my town so they would be perfect...:) Love your realness and your blog.....I might would be scared to eat off my cutting board....I don't have your cleanliness ocd....:) Wish i did. Have a great weekend Jayme!!!
ReplyDeleteI think the cards are GORGEOUS!!! And I think you have my e-mail address but just in case . . . robbing@brydonlaw.com. I would ABSOLUTELY spend time with friends. Life is short, Etsy can wait. HAVE A BLESSED DAY!!!
ReplyDeleteYou have been an inspiration to all of us by "keeping it real!" That's why we love ya so much! Love the cards, seriously!!
ReplyDeleteAwesome cards!! And you know I swear by your serum- would make my day to be your lucky winner!! As for keepin' it real- BLESS YOU AND THANK YOU!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThose cards are cute and adorable!! I've used your serum before, its really good!! Spring like weather here in central Indiana, atleast for a couple of days:) Enjoy
ReplyDeleteLove the cards and love, love, love this blog. You are an inspiration! Spring is coming!!!!
ReplyDeleteSusan
(susandutka@aol.com)
Love the cards, Jayme!! I love that you eat off the cutting board as many of us do the same thing!! Or over the sink as not to drip everywhere with watermelon juice!! esnojd@yahoo.com Blessings, Earlene
ReplyDeleteStay strong girl friend. You can do it!!!
ReplyDeleteShould be cleaning, Should be removing clutter. Should be making progress on a thousand things. But the sun is out today, and to me that means it's time to enjoy life, grab my camera, and walk, walk, walk, walk. First I'll grab a couple strawberries and eat them over the sink ;)
ReplyDeleteWell, I'm with you- I LOVE real! There are a lot of "perfect" phonies out there and I try to avoid them at all costs. REAL people get to me everytime! Great cards, Jayme. I hope you have fun with your girlfriend today- xo Diana
ReplyDeleteI look forward to your words....sometimes wacky and sometimes wisdom.....and always something in between! Keep it real girlfriend!!!
ReplyDeleteI love those chicken cards! They're super adorable...great job!
ReplyDeleteAnd thank you, again, for being real. It's a rare gift in this world. Why is that?!
Hugs,
KateJ
I think my google account is all funky these days, so here is my other account...just in case:-). Vikingjob@yahoo.com
DeleteAgain, thanks for keeping it real Jayme! Your shares are always interesting and inspiring. Geez, just look at those darn cute cards. All the projects you accomplish, well, I am starting to feel like a slug :( Hope you enjoyed your day. It was finally a warm one, that brought lunch out, (soup and salad) I behaved myself. Time with my twin grandbabies. More visiting with my Sister in law and a good healthy walk with her and her beagle in tow.... Life is good!!
DeleteDebra
I love your blog. Love your cards. And love you! You always put a smile on my face.
ReplyDeletedkin@comcast.net
I sincerely appreciate your blog, as well as your realism. I look forward to reading your posts. Your cards are so so cute! Very talented!
ReplyDeleteGet them on Etsy Girl!
ReplyDeleteGet them on Etsy Girl!
ReplyDeleteAlways excited to see a post from you. I enjoy your take on life. Hope it was a good day with your friend. Your chicken cards make me smile.
ReplyDeletejulee@wittenbergnet.net
Well ...all I can say is I sure can relate to all your blogs..that was the reason I started following...you were so REAL..I love it and you...and I gotta say I LOVE the Spring Chicken Serum...I'm sure I'd love your cards too :)
ReplyDeleteLOVE your cards!!!!!!! Let us know when you have them on ETSY!!!!! Hope you had a fun day with your friend!!!
ReplyDeleteNancy
Oh me! Pick me! :) seriously, you are soooo right. I feel the same way as a blogger and it's why I've shared so much of my depression journey on my blog. Blessings to you for your authenticity!!!
ReplyDeleteLove the cards! Would love to win!
ReplyDeleteTurtletopp07 at aol dot com
Jayme, I so enjoy your blog, your honesty, photos, recipes and glimpse into your life. Thanks for keepin' it real! gmshingo@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteSome days I have a heck of a time commenting.....will try again! I thinking you're coming off that sugar and I bet you're feeling better! renorookie@charter.net
ReplyDeleteI love the knitting chicken!!!
ReplyDeletethobbs@oppenheimer.com
Sorry about that. Twyla is thobbs@oppenheimer.com. Love your blog!
ReplyDeleteOh how cute your cards are! And I can't wait to hear the story behind Mother Wilma. And do please snap real pictures of what you are eating. Curious minds want to know. :)
ReplyDeleteAnd I say one big hearty AMEN to your tangent. Thanks for keeping it reals, Jayme! You "write" my language- chicken scratch. ha!
-Jodi
Love the Mother Wilma cards and I think you should definitely takes pics of your food and share them with us! jljmccord@hotmail.com
ReplyDeleteThose are so stinkin' cute, count me in please!
ReplyDeletegood golly Miss Molly these are cute just like you. I have been reading for eons of course heck I even called you early one morning!! I know your struggles as I go through the very same thing and you make me feel like I can do it too. Thank you for all of your encouragement. Nancy sheepishgrin92@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteI already love your serum! It would be great to win another bottle. Or, you know, I'll just buy myself one! Cute cards!
ReplyDeleteJamie, I am a follower of yours because you are so real. I enjoy seeing your beautiful home and gardens. Thank you for being so honest.
ReplyDeleteIt is so nice to 'meet' a Real person on this confounded machine.You may note my 'nickname is Reality as I post this.I agree with other 'posts' it is such a pleasure to see and read about you,as I said in another 'post' you have the 'Power' and you will win I know.Not slam bam..but in the end.Hope you had a fun day with the friend..
ReplyDeleteYay Jayme, for your triumphs and creativity and sharing what is real! The cards are adorable! I would love to see if your serum gives me beautiful skin like yours! You could message me on facebook if I'm the lucky winner! :) Keep up the good work! Beth Kreider
ReplyDeleteJayme, I don't think it's creepy that you took a picture of your breakfast. You just made eating off the cutting board a magazine photo...nice composition. Tonight I had a slice of tofurkey roast off a tupperware lid. Life isn't pretty all the time. Also, I love your cards, you are a very talented gal. Next time I'm in Indiana I'm stopping by for a tour and a cup of tea. (Wishful thinking). I say enjoy life instead of trying to live in a movie and we will find that the ordinary things, like your breakfast, become the extraordinary. Blessings to you and keep real. Leanne
ReplyDeleteJayme, love your blog. Love the cards, would love to try the serum. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteOh Jayme, I LOVE the cards. They are so definitely ME! And I could use the serum after the winter we've had. (Who am I kidding, we're still having it.) Your description of your relationship with sugar was a description of me, too. How could anyone forget they were eating a candy bar? Sugar calls to me in all it's forms. Thank you for doing this great give-away. And keep up the good work. I want to see a picture of that bracelet on your wrist. ralphjohns@bresnan.net
ReplyDeleteDo post the etsy address when you're ready to go!
ReplyDeleteI have been lurking on your blog for several years now and you always inspire me to do more. I started Lent off with "no candy for 40 days", something I have never done! It's hard, I hear ya. Would love your get away. You are an amazing women and mean so much to all of us readers. Good luck to all of us.
ReplyDeleteNancy at nanclg@frontiernet.net
The cards look absolutely fantastic! Now, you just need Hallmark to pick them up. . . .
ReplyDeleteI love to read anything you write. You could write about toilet paper and I would be excited to read it. Thanks for sharing the REAL things of life. It truly does make us all feel better.
Jayme,
ReplyDeleteYou know why everyone (including those who've never met you) considers you a friend?
Cause you are the best kind of friend -- the kind who shares generously. You share your foibles, chickens, dreams, adventures, garden, frustrations, recipes, losses, inspiration, Aaron, your hysterical sense of humor, your insight, wishes, your handmade products to name a few. I could go on...but you get the idea.
Your cards are cute and happy and lucky will be the one who wins your giveaway.
Susan
Good for you for getting the cards done. But Lordy what I really need is the serum!
ReplyDeleteCindy Bee
What fun those cards are! Super cute and super "you"! Being and keeping it real is why we are followers of you and your blog, my friend.
ReplyDeleteThe cards are so stinking cute! How did you come up with the name Mother Wilma?
ReplyDeleteI have wondered why it is this girl I am friends with has such an uninteresting blog. You hit it---trying too hard to be wonderful. I wish I was a good enough friend to let her know---maybe I can think of a gentle way. Anyway, this is a great post and I love your cards! Love chickens and so excited to get new ones this spring. I was not sad that I didn't have them this winter:). I might be too late for the drawing but I wanted to thank you for this post!
ReplyDeleteIt's about time, Jayme! I have been waiting for you do do these cards for a very long while. CONGRATULATIONS!
ReplyDeleteAs for the other things you contemplated upon on this post... well, I look at you through the same lens that you see others through, and trust me, I would be horrified to show all in reality on my blog. I don't make it up though; I just omit much. '-)
Lynda
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