Thursday, January 26, 2012

My Name is Sally O'Malley...

Today is 'the' day.
I'm 50.
50!
I like to kick, and stretch- and kick....


Of course it doesn't feel a bit different than 49.

What do I want for my birthday?
It's different than Christmas.
I want presents baby!

I don't want cake - I don't want a fancy night out on the town - I don't want jewelry -

I want a big truckload of horse manure.
I want boxes of baby chicks and turkey poults.
I want trees and shrubs.
I want workout clothes and barbells.
I want a CrossFit membership and a bucket to puke in while I'm there.

I like where my life is going - but I want more.
I have felt a bit goal-less lately - a bit in limbo - and it's time for it all to change.
I know it sounds silly to say - but it feels like the clock is running faster and faster these days, and if I'm not careful I'll have some regrets.

Aaron is sleeping upstairs as I type this - it's almost time to wake him for school.
He's wanting to stay home today - says my birthday should be a National Holiday.
:-)
Nice try Aaron, nice try.

I'm not sure what I'm going to do with today.
I thought of heading out and spending the day alone - going to my favorite places like JoAnn fabrics, Barnes and Nobles, and the gym.
I thought of calling a friend to spend the day with me.
I thought about making a gluten free Lemon Tart.
I thought about tearing apart my office and painting it.
Perhaps I should stay home so I can accept all of the flower and gift deliveries.
(Please email me if you need my address!)

Perhaps I'll have a conglomeration of it all.
One thing is for certain - tonight I will sit on the couch with Glenco, watch Season Five, Disk Two of Big Love and knit.
And eat lemon tarts.


One thing I know for sure - I want to sit down and get my head together.
I need a big goal to shoot for -
maybe another marathon or something.
I don't cotton to this willy nilly feeling I've had lately - no clear direction - just floating along.

I also need to finish up my 50 Random Acts of Kindness this week - I missed a few days when I was sick.
I need to tell you about that project.  I hate to use words like 'amazing and life changing' but it really was in so many ways.

THANK YOU.
Thank you for being here - thank you for all the laughs and encouragement you've given to me.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!


74 comments:

  1. Happy birthday!!!! I think your next goal should be to live for another 50 years, minimum. I can just picture you at 100 being that feisty old lady everyone wants to be like. Hope your day is wonderful and full of everything you want.

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  2. Happy birthday!!!! I think your next goal should be to live for another 50 years, minimum. I can just picture you at 100 being that feisty old lady everyone wants to be like. Hope your day is wonderful and full of everything you want.

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  3. Happy Happy Birthday Jayme!!!!!! I agree with debbyrose-50 more years so we can get our encouragement everyday!!!!

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  4. Have the most wonderful Birthday ever! Make 50 the best of them all. But most of all take time to appreciate some of the better times of the last 49.

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  5. Happy Birthday! Enjoy your day whatever you decide to do!

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  6. "Happy Birthday, Jayme" Enjoy it to the fullest. Hugs, Deb=^..^=x4

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  7. Oh I loved Big Love. I watched every Sunday night. So good. Get Nurse Jackie next or Sopranos. Loved them. Also we loved Deadwood. They are all HBO or Showtime.

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  8. No regrets...everything is as it should be.

    Happy Birthday!!

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  9. Happy Birthday! Have a great day no matter what you decide to do.

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  10. OMG! 50 is a wonderful #. It represents everything golden. The only problem is I never knew how much I loved 50 until I was 60. Love it even more now that I'm in my 70's quickly heading to my 80's. I actually hate the # 80. Just say "eighty" and hear how dreadful it sounds. See what I mean?

    Happy birthday sweetie! Enjoy it to the fullest! Hugz!

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  11. happy birthday Jayme! I hope it's beautiful!

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  12. Happy Birthday to someone who gives us all so much joy and laughter! Whatever you do today, I pray it is filled with many blessings and good memories! ((hugs))

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  13. Happy 50th Jayme!! Girl, you are gorgeous and so so funny :) Hope I look as beautiful when I'm 50.
    Have a wonderful day!
    Sally OMalley is when Sat Nite Live was still funny!! Love it!
    Sending hugs!

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  14. Happy Birthday! I've enjoyed reading your blog for some time now but never had the guts to comment.

    Hope your day is extra special!

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  15. Happy Birthday!! that is great video ...but i was so hoping it was going to be you in that outfit ... dancing & kicking. i love molly shannon. she is so hilarious. ever seen "superstar" ... love that movie. have a fabulous day & hope you do what you wish & when you wish. you deserve all the best!! (:

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  16. Happy Birthday woman!

    "We never, ever do enough for ourselves . . ."

    DO IT!

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  17. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! You don't look a day over 25;) Enjoy!!!

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  18. Happy Birthday, Coop!
    Oh, how I wish I was your neighbor....I'd go to the baby chick store with you and hold the box while you pick out fifty new babies to celebrate your special day. Then, I'd do fifty jumping jacks with you to celebrate all you've accomplished this last year. Then I'd help you paint your office and we'd get all artsy fartsy and free-hand deep and meaningful thoughts on the walls in beautiful swirly letters. Then we'd go outside as the dump truck delivers yard after yard of the most beautiful, steamy, partially decomposed compost we've ever seen. Then, after touring your winter garden and chatting about your springtime garden plans and your summertime garden dreams, we'd go back inside and enjoy some of your lemon tart. I'd sing happy birthday and you'd pretend it doesn't sound horrible and then we'd hug and I'd tell you just how glad I am that you are my friend.
    Love you, Jaymes!

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  19. No, thank YOU Jayme. You just cheer me up to no end. Happy Birthday and I hope you get everything you want!

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  20. Happy Big 50! You look fabulous, darling!!!

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  21. Happy Birthday!! It sounds like you've got a lot of goals for someone in limbo! Enjoy the day to it's/your fullest!

    ~Chris

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  22. Happy Birthday sweet friend! You continue to be an inspiration to me. :)

    Have a fabulous gluten-free tart!

    xxoo

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  23. Happy Birthday Jayme!! Sounds like it will be the best birthday you've ever had!!!!! So happy for you. =D

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  24. Happy Birthday to you, Jayme! I hope you feel extra special today, because you are.

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  25. Happy 50th!!! Did you ever think you'd be this fabulous at 50??? Enjoy your entire year!

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  26. It's your birthday!! Have a happy!!
    (And my vote would be painting your office... I seriously LOVE painting... and it'll always be there to remind you of how you spent your special day! :)

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  27. Happy Birthday Sall...I mean Jayme! I hope you spend your day doing all of things that make you happy! Here's to a wonderful year! xoxo Debbie

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  28. Happy Birthday, Jayme! Make it the best one yet.

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  29. Happy Birthday, Jayme! Enjoy and celebrate YOU!

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  30. Bad luck that you are not an Indian Jayme, for if you were, your birthday WOULD have been a national holiday! (Indian Republic Day!) Oh and happy birthday! Keep smiling and fit! You are my inspiration...

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  31. Very Best Wishes for a Most Joy-Filled Birthday Miss Jayme.
    What an amazing year you have had. I'm very happy for you- and that I found your blog and got to witness your journey this year.

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  32. I think Aaron was right. It should be a National Holiday. You should have let him stay home and celebrate with you! Think of all the fun you two could have gotten into. I hope ;that your found fun on your own! Wishes for the best birthday for you ever!!!

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  33. Happy Birthday! I hope it your best ever!

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  34. Happy 50th Birthday!
    I bet you're in better shape mentally and physically than you've ever been! Congratulations on making the most of your journey!

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  35. Happy 50th Birthday.
    You look beautiful.
    Congratulations.

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  36. Happy Birthday from California!!!! Have the best day ever and let Aaron stay home with you!!!

    Send me your address so next year I can surprise you!!

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  37. Happy Birthday!

    Thanks to your hard work you could now do the SNL kick off.I love being over 50 and with much thought that now everyday truely counts and it is sad kinda that the other 50 years just went by.
    Have a wonderful day.

    Sherry

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  38. Jayme, Happy, Happy birthday to you!! Hope whatever you decided to do was wonderful. Wishing you all the best in the next "50" :-)
    A. Farrar

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  39. Happy Birthday, Jayme!!
    You're my kind of Gal Pal.
    Keep goin' and never stop, Friend!

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  40. Happy Birthday Jayme. You go girl!

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  41. Happy Birthday! I hope you have a fantabulous day! BTW, 50 is only a number. I have a feeling you'll be fooling everybody when asked your age! Keep up the life changing work!

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  42. Happy Birthday to you. You are an amazing 50 year old woman. Today is your day and you should do what ever makes you feel good. Enjoy! And write and tell us how it went.

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  43. Happy Birthday!!! a Gluten free lemon tart? DO SHARE!!... I'm trying the gluten free thing, good gawd, it's hawd.

    I look forward to wishing you a happy 100th!... enjoy.

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  44. Happy Happy 50th to you, Jayme. I loved being 50-It's like it was the year I came into my own..and FINALLY figured out who I was and what I was doing (kinda). I wish you peace and happiness and the ability to find your purpose this year- xo Diana

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  45. Happy Birthday to you!
    Happy Birthday to you!
    Happy Birthday, Dear Jayme!
    Happy Birthday to yoooouuuuu!
    Hope your day is grand!
    Velvia

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  46. Jayme, Happy Happy Birthday!!!! I hope you have a wonderful day. Sending birthday greetings from Maine, Julie.

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  47. Jayme,
    Just wanted to wish you a joyously Happy Birthday! May you have all your wishes delivered to you in your most comfortable chair, where you are dining on your favorite new food (non-dairy of course), and wearing your sexiest flannel nighty!
    And don't even think of sweating the big 5-0h! because at least you aren't 51!
    Blessings,
    Susan

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  48. Happy birthday Miss Jayme!!
    50 is a fabulous year- as are the ones to follow- embrace the new decade and all of your goals!!
    Have fun today!

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  49. Happy 50th!!! Now your life really starts, really it does just ask me. I started having more fun after I turned 50. Something like if I don't do it now I never will. Hope you had a great one since it is evening now and the day is almost over. Enjoy those lemon tarts, Sounds perfect.

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  50. Why can"t your birthday be a national holiday? I try to make mine one! LOL Happy Birthday! I think you have done a LOT the last few months so give yourself some slack! Traci

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  51. Happy Birthday!!! Hope you have a blast :)

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  52. Happy, happy, happy Day, Jayme. Enjoy it to the fullest.

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  53. Happy Birthday Jayme from one of your "elders" (I'm almost three months older than you!). Love your idea of doing your random acts of kindness 50 days til your birthday. I did squat! Glad to hear you are feeling better. Enjoy your birthday evening!

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  54. Happy Happy Birthday Jayme.
    I hope you had a most Excellent day filled with love, hugs, knitting and lemon tarts. Sounds perfect to me.
    Julie

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  55. Oh nooo I thought it was the 28th!!

    Happy Happy Birthday Jaymee, you've given yourself the best present ever. . . Yay Jaymee!

    A fabric store, and barnes and noble both my favorite. . . hope whatever you did, you enjoyed the day.

    Dontcha think on your birthday you should have a button on that says,
    "Hey, today's my Birthday" youuu whooo, you sittin there sippin your coffee, today's my Birthday, hey mr. motorcycle man driving next to me, woohoo today's my Birthday, . . . no. . .it's just me isn't it...Ü hope it was a good one.

    50 is just so freeing. . . enjoy girlfriend!

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  56. I loved those Sally O'Malley skits on SNL. Wish there was one for us gals in their sixties. I can still kick and stretch and walk five miles a day. I loved my fifties and my sixties aren't looking too bad so enjoy yourself as you hit the big 50. You're healthy and that's the most important. Life does go faster but it's because you're happy. And don't anyone tell you you can't lose weight after a certain age. You and I have both lost 80 pounds at our ages. I lost mine in the last two years. So age is not an excuse.

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  57. To Marge, some of the most beautiful, fun to be with ladies I know are in their eighties.

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  58. Happy birthday Jayme....I can't write much...I had surgery on my right hand, and that's what I am....right handed! But I want to wish you a very happy next 50 years1! iT is so much better than the first 50....well so faranyway! lol Hope you can read this, Hun!!

    HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ....Amy B.

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  59. Happy birthday to the lady who brightens our days with such a diverse range of subjects to make us think, laugh and sometimes cry. You are a jewel. And my grandma said she was never gonna act her age and neither am I. ;-)

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  60. Happy Birthday, hope you had lots of fun today and didn't get into too much trouble! See, 50's the same as 49. No difference whatsoever! I spent the day with my Mother in law, we're shopping and I look down at her shoes. She has on some of those Nike wild color ones with the weird soles. She doesn't have a clue she's 2 years away from the BIG 9.0. She wears yoga pants cause she got them on sale, the other day she was telling me about these jeans that she has to wear a longer top... she bought a pair of hip huggers and WEARS them. Oh Lord! But you know what, she's intesting and no one ever asks her age cause it doesn't matter. She 10, going on 11! Eat cake and be happy!

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  61. Couldn't be a more kickin' way to start off your BDay post today Jayme -- it just got better 'n better with your words!!! Celebrate to the hilt Birthday Girl -- you rock!

    God Bless,
    Barbra.

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  62. Happy Birthday, Jayme from another of your skin serum devotees! I dont have a blog of my own where I can write a toast to you on this milestone day, but I am so happy to have found your blog and wish to say I do enjoy every bit of inspiration and laughter and tears (usually from laughing out loud) that you share. You are a bright spot in a tired teacher's day. Here's to 50 more years of continuing adventures!
    Susan
    (TX)

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  63. Happy Birthday to you! The best part of getting older is being more accepting of yourself.

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  64. Happy Birthday, you glamorous creature! Like you, I have discovered that turning 50 does not really feel any different.

    Kathy from Tasmania

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  65. HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY...HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY...HAPPY HAPPY BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRTHTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTHHHHHHHHHHHHHHDAY....happy birthday Jayme!!! You have had an amazing year and are such a great inspiration to many of us in BLOG land.

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  66. Hope your day was phenomenal Jayme!!! Wish I was there to celebrate with you...did you get my flowers? (JK!) But I would have sent them if I was mobile. I think. I would have wanted to anyway!!! I think you should have some Squirrel goals...some special trips maybe! Like to Lynden!
    I like Aaron's thought!

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  67. Happy Birthday a day late and a dollar short Jayme! I hope your day was just wonderful and that you are knee deep in baby chickens.

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  68. Happy 50th Jayme... a MUCH stronger and MUCHO changed woman since 40!!! YES! This next decade will be the one we prove that FIFTY is AWESOME...Life is truly what we make of it...I, for one, and absolutely, obviously YOU, are not going to settle down and let 50 be the beginning of the: mid-life, dowdy, accepting the changes to senior years, slowing down, showing your age YEARS!!! We're not Spring Chicks, but we're CERTAINLY not OLD BIDDIES either!!!!! (woot) Happy Happy Happy Happy Day Jayme. Whatever you do...Have fun...NO guilt...sending a hug and kiss to my inspirational bloggy sis!!!! xo

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  69. Oh... can't stop laughing at Sally O'Malley and may have to put her on my blog's sidebar... LMAO... Happy Birthday.. so sorry just can't stop laughing at Sally... LMAO
    Oh, did I say happy birthday to you? LOL Sorry, still laughing at Sally.

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  70. Happy Birthday Jayme! You will Love the 50's! I am 53 and having the time of my life. It is "our" time now! I am so very proud of you and you have given me inspiration to eat better, take time for myself and to tend to my garden more. Next thing for me...Chickens!
    Glad you had a wonderful day! You deserved it!

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  71. You'll find with 50 there is a new calm. A wise sage, a crone. There is honor and wisdom. I love where I am and I know you are going to love it, too.
    Your birthday is the same day as my Dad's!
    xo, Cheryl

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  72. Belated Birthday greetings. I hope you are still celebrating! Wishing you your best decade yet!
    xo
    Leslie

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  73. Just wanted to let you know that I am a new follower and fellow Hoosier! But the other thing I just learned about your fab sight...we have. the. same. birthday. How cool is that? Maybe not so cool for you since you don't know me from Adam, but I think it rocks. I'll be up in your neck of the woods next week as I drive to Michigan. You all better keep the weather under control. It's like night and day sometimes between northern and southern Indiana. I tell ya.

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